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- Title: Trust Building In Relationships & Resolving Trust Issues: Your Morals And Character Are Not Enough - Building Trust To Completely Remove Doubt And Anxiety
- Author : Peta Jane Kayes
- Release Date : January 21, 2016
- Genre: Family & Relationships,Books,Nonfiction,
- Pages : * pages
- Size : 229 KB
Description
Trust issues start long before trust is Lost; Building trust has to start long before trust is needed.
Do not wait until trust is broken to build it. Do not wait until trust is lost to go find it. Build it now. Find it now.
If trust is already broken, or lost, do not focus on what has been broken, do not focus on what has been lost, focus on what you must now build – Real Trust.
You can do this.
What Is Real Trust About?
Trust is first and foremost about comfort. And that's great. But it's also bad.
We as human beings crave comfort, so we will overlook the red flags just to have comfort. Then we try to mistake our comfort for trust.
Our manufactured comfort is not really the result of trust. It is really the result of fear - Fear of being alone; fear of being abandoned; fear of looking stupid; fear of not being loved.
How can you trust when you have any of these fears? IT DOES NOT WORK!
You were not meant to live like this - in an untrustworthy, fearful relationship.
So let's build trust in your relationship the right way.
Building Real Trust - The No-Nonsense Components
Here we take a no-nonsense approach to trust building. It is definitely not romantic in approach.
Yes, we understand the importance of romance.
But what is romance without trust? - A one-night stand that keeps on repeating itself until it gets tired.
Romance is wonderful but in a relationship where you are going to have to live your life from day to day, you better have trust built on something apart from your romantic notions.
So here is what we will look at:
Here is some of what you will learn from this book:
•Why in an intimate relationship you cannot just base your trust on character, morals, reputation, or even actions.
•Why the way we have been taught to build trust in an intimate relationship sets us up for disappointments.
•Why you have to approach trust building in an intimate relationship differently from other relationships.
•How to really build or rebuild trust in an intimate relationship.
•Why comfort in an intimate relationship is so much more important than just trust.
•How to know when it is okay to trust or trust again.
•Why you absolutely cannot be in fear of trusting too much in an intimate relationship.
•The importance of having trust in yourself.
•Why you must differentiate between the types of trust violations.
•The one thing you must do if you are the victim of sexual infidelity and the one thing you cannot allow your partner to do.
•One woman’s unconventional approach to dealing with cheating in her relationship.
•Why we tend to rush to trust in an intimate relationship and why we should not.
•Why you absolutely must see cheating for what it is and not accept rationalizations.
•Why conversational tone is so important in rebuilding trust.
•Why you should not be too quick to forgive someone who has violated
your trust.
Once you understand each of the above components you will never go back to building trust in your relationship the way so many of us have been conditioned to - just leave it up to itself to happen.
You will build trust with confidence.
You will see trust, not as this intangible, but as something tangible on which you can stand firmly.